{"id":49,"date":"2008-07-25T00:03:00","date_gmt":"2008-07-25T07:03:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/danoday.com\/blogWORDPRESS\/2008\/07\/25\/career-advice-when-you-screw-up\/"},"modified":"2008-07-25T00:03:00","modified_gmt":"2008-07-25T07:03:00","slug":"career-advice-when-you-screw-up","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/danoday.com\/blog\/2008\/07\/career-advice-when-you-screw-up\/","title":{"rendered":"CAREER ADVICE: WHEN YOU SCREW UP"},"content":{"rendered":"


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One of the first emails I read this morning upset me.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Someone had inadvertently ripped off my intellectual property. It was obvious that he didn’t realize he was doing something wrong, because he told me about in the email.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Because I knew he had good intentions and, in fact, is a fan of my work, I chose the wording of my response very carefully. I wanted to make sure this never happened again, but I didn’t want to offend him.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Before sending my email response, I scrutinized it one more time. I didn’t see how I could make the tone any more kind while still retaining the core message: “Don’t do that again.”<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Satisfied that I had been as diplomatic as I possibly could be, I sent the email.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Here’s a neat trick when you’re telling a story: <\/span><\/p>\n

Allow the audience to think they already know how it’s going to end. Y’know, kinda like the way you think you know where this story is going….<\/span><\/p>\n

Even though you’re mistaken. It’s going in a different direction.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

A couple of minutes after I hit the “Send” button, I wondered if I had misinterpreted his message. A little checking revealed that he hadn’t done anything wrong at all \u2014 not even inadvertently.<\/span><\/p>\n

What he had done was completely legit and could only help me.<\/span><\/p>\n

Question:<\/span> If you were I, what would you have done as soon you had realized your error?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

I hope you didn’t say, “Send him another, apologetic email as soon as possible.”<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

That wouldn’t have been enough.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

I grabbed the phone and called him.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

When you screw up:<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

1. Fix it fast.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

2. Make sure the “victim” knows you appreciate the seriousness of your mistake. Most of us don’t like to be falsely accused of bad behavior. It stings, a lot. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Sending a simple, “Hey, sorry, my mistake” email would’ve been the obvious thing to do. But I don’t think it would have relieved the sting.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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