A while ago, a jock wrote to me, asking for advice:
“I’m trying to build my on-air radio career, and I’d really like to play up the fact that I’m female, to develop a female personality.
“My concern is that I would offend a male audience.
“Do my listeners want to know about me? Do they care? Should I make them care?
“I have never believed that the sexes are equal…rather that we are uniquely different.”
I do not believe one needs to play up the obvious. Assuming that the listener can tell from your voice that you are a female, why bother to stress what the listener always knows?
If you are a woman and you have a personality, you will be a female personality.
Your desire should be to develop a personality. Your personality.
Whoever you are should be reflected in that personality: gender, age, race, sexual preference, childhood, intelligence, prejudices, fears, desires, hobbies, habits, spirituality (or lack of).
(Note I said “reflected,” not “mirrored.” I am not suggesting these things should be held up on a placard for your audience to see; I am suggesting that who you really are should have an impact on who you appear to be on-air.)
If as an air talent you see yourself as uniquely different because of your gender vs. uniquely different because of who you are as a human being (which includes gender among 10,000 other important variables), you are limiting yourself.
To take a female example, Oprah Winfrey is successful not because she’s so different from male talk show hosts. She’s successful because she’s so different (i.e., smarter, better prepared, more thoughtful, talented, intuitive and ambitious) than most talk show hosts, period.
Her success is not due to her presenting herself as “a woman” or “as an African-American” or an “African-American woman” or a “single woman” or a “single African-American woman”; it is due to her bringing herself onto the stage every day, with all the components that self comprises.
You are putting on blinders by asking if someone might be alienated if you share the most interesting parts of your life with them.
Do they want to know? They can’t answer that in advance.
Do they care? If you share it in a way that they can relate to, yes.
Should you make them care? Absolutely.
In concentrating upon developing yourself as a female personality, you are rushing headlong into the female radio ghetto to which (mostly male) program directors have assigned women over the years…and which many have struggled to overcome for their entire careers.
If you ask me for sources of information/instruction on developing a personality, I can offer some suggestions.
But helping you develop a “female personality” would be helping you buy a one-way ticket to that ghetto.
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Thank you… that was something I needed to read this morning!
GREAT Article Dan! Thanks for posting the link, all female air talent should read this!
This applies to ALL talent… regardless of gender. Be interesting, involve the listener and relate to the listener in a way that it’s not “all about you”.
BRAVO! Excellent perspective here. I have not struggled with being who I am on the air over the years but rather who the folks I work with would have me be ( which over the past years has changed many times over) . I Have had managers actually straight up tell me that in all their years of rock radio they never managed a female before. I laughed but was empathetic to their feelings and all worked out in the end. I have learned from many of them. As a female I feel completely equal to my male on air talent. I am however a female bringing my perspective and spin to the table. My target demo is male and it has been hard to stay out of the Ghetto you speak of but you are right a personality is a personality regardless of gender. I simply try to be an interesting and entertaining one. I love and respect my audience and am able to kid around with them and in turn they respect me as well. I love what I do very much but it hasn’t always been easy. I have really struggled with many over the years who for some odd reason didn’t think that females belonged on the air. I am fortunate that I always believed that females belong on the air and not just as a side kick.